Be Strong

Guys,

If anyone ever makes you feel terrible almost all the time, GET RID OF THEM.  Cut them out of your life.  You need relationships and friendships that are healthy and that boost you, not drag you down.  If someone causes you to have panic attacks, cut them loose.  If someone makes you miserable, kick them to the curb!  If a guy gives you an ultimatum and says you can either date him or he will slowly end your friendship, just let him go.  Don’t let anyone manipulate you or bully you into doing something you don’t want to do.  If you don’t have romantic feelings for a guy you are not required to date him, even if he says that’s the only way you two will stay close.  Do what makes you happy guys, don’t kowtow to anyone.  Be strong.  Have faith.  There are people out there that love and care about you, no strings attached.

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Don’t let the muggles get you down!

DeereReaderGirl

 

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4 responses to “Be Strong

  1. TheCatssMeoww

    This is so true

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    • I agree! There isn’t enough time in the day to deal with all the people that can negatively affect your life. It stinks to end friendships, but if it’s a relationship that’s hurting you, then it’s worth it in the long run.

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      • TheCatssMeoww

        I don’t understand why people stay in such toxic relationships. Whether it be friends, relatives, or significant others I swear they just like the abuse.

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      • I think they’re scared. I ended a friendship tonight, which was way overdue, but I was scared of what would happen once I finally took the leap. People don’t always like change, and sometimes they fear it. If a person goes back again and again to an abuser after leaving, that’s just devastating, but I really think the unknown of what will happen is what keeps some people in toxic relationships.

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